In this post I’m going to reveal how you can have a relationship filled with authenticity, honesty, fun, fiery passion, and emotional depth…

And if you’re like most of the women I talk to, you might be asking yourself, “Wait… you mean with a MAN?!”

Yep.

It’s no fairytale. Of course no relationship is perfect, always easy, or completely free of challenge and even pain (that’s the problem with falling in love with humans… every one of them is messed up in one way or another-- including thy and I!).

But there are actual secrets, “tricks,” and wisdom that can give you the ability to teach your man what you really need, avoid his defensiveness and his bad programming… and actually GET IT ALL:

• A man that prioritizes you and your needs and makes you feel special and desired
• A relationship where it’s safe to talk about emotional issues
• A sex life that is passionate, fulfilling, and emotionally connected
• Love that is both wide with fun and deep with intimacy

And perhaps most importantly, once you start doing things the RIGHT way, not only do you get more of what you most want in relationship-- but because you’re relating with your man in this entirely new way, you avoid the common traps that most relationships stumble over-- which builds the foundation for that passion and intimacy to LAST.

| The Couple That Has It All

Look, I know it’s tempting to believe that this is all just hype and that I’m just talking about fantasy-land here… except for one thing:

We all KNOW a couple that has it all. They actually exist. That couple that go from honeymoon, to kids, to old age filled with love, affection, laughter, and deep mutual devotion throughout their lives together.

It’s easy to think they just got struck my magical lightning, or won the “relationship lottery,” but that would be a giant mistake.

I know, and have worked intimately with, many of these couples. My own parents had this kind of relationship, and I’m blessed to be living one, and it’s important you understand:

NOBODY has it easy in life.

For that “perfect” relationship to happen, a couple must struggle through personal insecurities and jealousies, sleepless nights with babies, the death of friends and parents, loss of jobs and financial anxieties, aging bodies, endless worry over the poor choices made their children, sudden and terrifying medical episodes, and more. Nobody gets out of this life without shedding some blood, sweat, and tears.

Yet somehow these rare couples manage to endure all that life throws at them without ever losing their love, passion, and devotion for each other. Through all of the storms of life, they have, at the center, an island in each other.

It’s important that you see this with clarity, because believing that it was luck is one of the things that holds other couples back from achieving this kind of happiness.

| The Woman That Has It All

One of the interesting observations that I’ve made, and you may have noticed the same thing…

Some women seem to always get lucky in love.

In fact, most of the time, if you knew the woman in that perfect relationship when she was younger, she was ALWAYS the woman that had it all when it came to men. Men seemed magnetized to her. Her relationships were always fulfilling, affectionate, and devoted.

Again, I’ve been studying these folks for quite some time, and if your observations are anything like mine, then you have to admit that she is probably NOT the most beautiful woman you know. Far from it. She’s likely pretty, I won’t argue it, but I have a clear notion based on a lot of data, and I’ll explain it further in a moment, that her fortune with men is, at best, only indirectly related to her looks.

That leads to 3 possibilities:

1) She’s just born lucky and is the only one who seems to accidentally meet the men who are loyal, emotionally available, skilled lovers, and mature communicators…

2) She has a special skill that most women don’t have for picking those rare men.

3) She has a special skill for CREATING THE KIND OF RELATIONSHIP that brings those qualities out in men.

It’s most tempting to believe that it’s all #1, and blind luck. But I think you know that just isn’t the case because you’ve seen the way MOST men react to her.

I don’t think anything in life is over-simple, and it may indeed be a combination of all 3, but if you look at mathematical statistics alone, it ought to be obvious that it’s mostly #3: Her skills at relating to men.

And that means that YOU can learn to do what SHE does.

| Making Passion Last

My Colleague, Dr. Esther Perel, author of the bestseller, “Mating In Captivity,” famously asked the question during her speech at TED:

“Is it possible to desire what you already possess?”

And in about the time it took her to ask that question on stage, she was launched into staggering fame, and became the toast of the town-- simply because she is a credible research scientist, who got up on an important stage, and said to couples, Don’t worry, just because you’re not that sexually interested in your partner anymore doesn’t make you broken.

She said the thing so many people are ashamed to say, and she made it sound normal… even scientifically inevitable. She said, in essence, it’s not your fault.

Well, with all due respect to my famous colleague, I call bullshit.

When she asks, “Can you desire what you already possess?” it sounds so profound-- but actually it’s a cleverly hidden pun. She’s mixing two meaning of the word “desire”...

Desire can mean a “wish” or “aspiration” for what we don’t have. In which case her question clearly must be answered, “No! You CAN’T desire what you already possess!”

But that’s not actually the subject of her talk!

When we discuss sexual desire, we’re talking about a normal biological urge that has nothing to do with wishing or aspiration, and to the degree that we can certainly feel it when we’re actually making love, we can clearly answer her question with a laughing, “OF COURSE!!”

And the real world proof are those (admittedly rare) couples that, even decades into their marriages, still can’t keep their hands off each other.

When I was a teenager, it embarrassed me that my parents were like that. Today I understand that it was a blessing and a legacy that they bestowed upon me. The example that they set allowed me to create that kind of passion in my own life, and to successfully teach it to others.

Most couples today expect that the novelty that originally made their attraction hot and exciting is all that there is of desire, and when it necessarily fades, they are left with nothing.

Yes. Novelty IS exciting!

But if you want passion to last with a person you are falling in love with, then you are going to have to play into a space of other qualities that create the foundation for desire and excitement that is lasting.

| The 3 Simple Intimacy Secrets?

The three sections above could easily be the 3 Secrets I promised in the headline of this post, and if you just examine your beliefs in these 3 areas, I believe you’ll have powerful new tools for getting so much more of what you want from romantic and sexual relationships.

1) Couples that have it all are not just lucky. They go through the same setbacks and life challenges as the rest of us.

2) Women that end up with great men aren’t just lucky or pretty, and they aren’t just better at “choosing winners.” They actually have a set of emotional and relationship skills (probably modeled from their parents) that allow them to create higher quality relationships with men.

3) Lasting Passion doesn’t come from somehow hanging on to that sweet and sexy novelty at the beginning of a relationship. It comes from prioritizing, nurturing, and playing into entirely different aspects of your sexual and emotional relationship.

Getting clear on these limiting beliefs just might be enough to free you and make you realize you actually can have it all!

| Passion, Connection, & Emotional Intimacy In Your Lovemaking

A lot of people are under the misconception that “making love” is “sex with someone you love.”

If only it were that simple!

Unfortunately plenty of couples who are in love have disconnected and disappointing sex.  And let’s face facts, very few men are ever taught anything past boobs and clitoris.

In fact, if you ask most men (and I ask them for a living) what they think they most need to become better lovers, they’ll usually say a bigger penis, more endurance, and maybe a secret G Spot technique.

So how you can you ask for what you want and actually get it? How can you “train” a man to understand what you really need and want when they seem to either go deaf or panic when you bring this kind of thing up?

How can you get the sexual pleasure you deserve AND have a man who is still deeply connected to the heat of his masculine desires, and knows how to seduce you with his presence?

I actually think that for a woman who wants True Love, these are the most important questions for you to ask.

I started down this career path by writing a book, for men, about sex and pleasing women. And what I have discovered in working with men, women, and couples over the past decade, is that SEX is the best path to working on every relationship issue.

Sex is a crucible for learning deep and honest communication.

Sex is a mini laboratory for every other issue that comes up in working together to create a deep and meaningful relationship, built upon Love and trust.

Getting A Man To Listen, Be Unselfish, Remain Secure In His Masculinity, Stay Present, and Be Capable Of Making Me Feel Secure Enough To Open Up…?
And You Also Want Me To Believe In Unicorns?

You probably wouldn’t be surprised to learn that when I counsel women I hear them say that finding a good man is impossible.

I hear them say that you can’t talk to a man about emotional issues without him shutting down, and getting him to be considerate of your feelings and actually be willing to do the work to LEARN how to please you in the bedroom is simply impossible.

I hear them say, “I am doing all of the work. I do everything he asks for to please him, but I never get it back in return.”

But I think you’d be very surprised to learn that when I counsel MEN (and receive hundreds of emails from them every month requesting help)... that they are saying the same thing!

That’s right, over the years I have heard from thousands of men: “I’m doing all of the work, and I do everything she asks for to please her, but I never get anything back in return.”

It’s enough to make a relationship author scream, “WHAT THE HECK IS GOING ON HERE?!”

Here’s what’s going on:

Men are so shamed so much for any sign of weakness in our culture that they fear being seen as “weak” more than anything else.

As a result, when these issues are approached in anything but EXACTLY the right way, men shut down.

And not just with YOU. They shut down and instinctively lie about what they want and need from intimacy when they talk to other men too… And they often shut down and lie even in their own SELF talk.

(Actually, if you’ve ever spent any time in psychotherapy, or even reading about psychotherapy, you probably know that all humans emotionally shut down and lie in their self talk!)

What I’ve discovered that most people find surprising?

Men and women largely want exactly the same things when it comes to sex, intimacy, closeness, and relationships… but they lack a common language to understand that they are actually agreeing!

And the 3 Intimacy Secrets?

They are the 3 things that men have told me they most want from SEX.

And when you see what they are, I think it’s going to change everything about how you relate to men…

| Men Secretly Crave This From You

It wasn’t large breasts… or long legs… or even a model-perfect body for that matter.

It wasn’t a dominatrix… more oral sex… threesomes… or complete sexual submission.

Here, in reverse order of overall importance, are the top 3 things that men said was either the secret to the best sex they ever had... or the one thing they most wished for from women, but never got:

| She’s A Good Receiver

That’s right, #3 overall among more than 20,000 men was to find a woman who was willing and eager to lay back and enjoy what they were doing.

While most women tell me that men are too selfish, disinterested in what women really want in the bedroom, and completely resistant to learning how how to please their woman…

The MEN themselves seemed completely consumed with learning how to become better lovers for their partners.

In fact, if you’ve read my blog post on “Letting Your Partner Make You Happy,” you know that good receivers are hard to find!

Letting your partner make you happy is a difficult skill in relationship, particularly when they aren’t necessarily already doing things in the way that you wish they would.

If most men are so deeply interested in how to please you… why does it seem just the opposite to most women?

In my experience, it’s because men have been disappointed, humiliated, and discouraged by failures in the past, and they are afraid of ever feeling like they are “weak” with a woman.

So even though they wish they knew how to please you… they just can’t ask, they can’t receive suggestions, and they get stuck in their heads trying to do some “How To” techniques they learned… if they are not too discouraged to try at all.

And I hope you agree, that if men really do feel that way (and I believe they do)... then there MUST be a way to bridge that gap, and communicate with a man about sex in a way that he can receive…

So that he can get what he secretly wants by giving YOU what you want.

| She Makes Me Feel Comfortable To Be Myself

The second most important thing that men want from women is to feel comfortable and safe being themselves.

I hear from women all the time that getting a man to be authentic… to be himself… to express the truth and the depth of his desire in the bedroom is nearly impossible!

So it’s extremely interesting (or just plain messed up!) that men WISH they could.

Once again it appears that men and women WANT the same thing, but seem to struggle in ever getting it. In fact, most of the time it feels like they are on opposite sides…

But it’s far more tragic than that. They are on the same side, but because of broken communication they feel like they are on opposite sides.

A lot of women, upon hearing this, will lay the blame squarely on men, who we all know have terrible skills in communicating emotional issues.

And that might even be true. But it’s certainly not the way a lot of men feel.

The men feel shut down, judged, made wrong, and forced to wear the “bad guy hat” in the relationship department, and so they go into defense mode, either tuning out or getting angry whenever these subjects come up.

And many men report that the best sexual experience they ever had was when they were with a woman who had a special gift of knowing how to put him at ease, let his guard down, drop his wired-up shame around his sexual desires and emotions, and feel open to really, authentically be himself.

| She Has Confidence In Her Own Body And Sexuality

This is the #1 Thing that the men said they mosted wanted from a partner. Men want a woman who is confident in her body, confident about her desires, and can openly talk about and ENJOY what she wants from sex.

The sexually confident woman is able to source her natural feminine radiance and her instincts about men, and give men unparalleled sexual experiences because when your partner is confident and comfortable with their body and sexuality… It gives YOU permission to be comfortable with your own body and sexuality too.

From the other perspective, when a woman has shame around her sexuality and body, it triggers a man’s shame around his sexuality and desires… and vice-versa.

That’s why it should come as no surprise that in another survey I did asking WOMEN what they wanted from men, the #1 thing on the women’s side was the exact same thing in the bedroom: A man with confidence in his sexuality, body, and masculinity.

Both men and women most crave the confident lover.

The woman who has this sexual confidence is irresistibly attractive to almost all men… and this has always been the case.

Even as far back as the ancient Roman Empire… When kingdoms were put at stake for the affections of Cleopatra of Egypt. The great men of the time became sexually obsessed with her… even though her looks were quite plain.

The Greek writer Plutarch, in his work The Life Of Antony, writes about Cleopatra:

"For her beauty, as we are told, was in itself not altogether incomparable, nor such as to strike those who saw her; but to converse with her had an irresistible charm, and her presence...had something stimulating about it.”

Translation?

Cleopatra wasn’t known as a great beauty. But when she was in the same room with the most powerful men in the world, they couldn’t help but fall for her.

She was able to seduce and sexually captivate Julius Caesar. Then, after Caesar’s death, she captured the heart of the second most powerful man in the world at the time: Caesar’s best friend and famously handsome and bold general, Marc Antony.

Cleopatra is just one example, and there are many more throughout history, but the point is this:

Sexual confidence is the one thing desired most by men, and you don’t have to have model-perfect looks in order to trigger a man’s passion and sexual obsession.

| But What If You Don’t Have This Confidence Right Now?

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→ “This sounds amazing, Alex. But isn’t there a catch somewhere?”

If there was a catch, I’d tell you about it now. But there isn’t.

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| “Wow! This sounds amazing, Alex. But how much does it all cost?”

I’ve made this program affordable, because I don’t want you missing out on having the best sex of your life with your man.

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